Never forget a birthday again: Use calendars and reminders

Everybody likes to be remembered on their birthdays – in many cultures, it is an important celebration that makes the birthday boy or girl feel special and appreciated. So it can also be very embarrassing to forget a birthday. But with so many friends, relatives and coworkers to keep track of, it’s easy to drop the ball on someone’s big day.
Group of coworkers at office birthday party
Use a birthday calendar – paper or digital – to make sure you never miss the fun!
Our advice: Learn the birthdays of your immediate family by heart, and use these tools to remember the rest!

Forgot a birthday? Here are the best tricks for remembering birthdays:

  1. Use a perpetual calendar and hang it somewhere you look every day
  2. Take advantage of Facebook notifications
  3. Set up calendar reminders on your smartphone
  4. Schedule birthday reminders in your email account

Perpetual calendar

If you like using a traditional wall calendar but don’t want to pencil in important repeating dates like birthdays or anniversaries every year, consider using a perpetual calendar. These calendars can be reused every year because they only give the month and the date without naming the day of the week. You just need to take the time once to write down all the special days you’d like to remember, then hang it somewhere you’ll see it every day – inside your pantry door, on the wall next to your regular calendar, next to your bedroom mirror, etc.

Facebook birthday notifications

Let’s admit it – Facebook has saved us more than once by alerting us to an old friend’s birthday. If sending the birthday boy or girl a DM or posting on their wall is how you usually send birthday greetings, this may even be the only solution you need. However, if you only check Facebook once a week – or even less frequently – there is still a chance someone’s special day will slip through the cracks. Plus getting a reminder on someone’s birthday does not give you enough time to buy and send a gift or get a card in the mail.

You can solve the latter problem by checking to see what birthdays are coming soon. On your main Facebook feed (Home), on the left menu click Explore > Events > Birthdays. Here you can scroll through your friends’ birthdays, including the all-important “Upcoming Birthdays”. Unfortunately, this only works if you are using Facebook in a browser, not the app. But you can use the app to check birthdays individually – just go to the person’s profile and click “About Info” (only if they’ve enabled others to see their birthday).

Smartphone alerts

If you already manage your time with your smartphone’s calendar app, this may be the best way to give yourself birthday reminders. This method requires you to be disciplined: Whenever you add a new contact to your phone, you should save their birthday along with the other info. This effort really pays off, because any birthdays entered in your smartphone contacts should automatically appear in your calendar.
The major advantage of keeping track of birthdays with your smartphone calendar is that you can set up automatic alerts for birthdays. For example, for birthday reminders on an iPhone, go to Settings > Calendar > Default Alert Times > Birthdays and then select your preferred interval to receive alerts.
Screenshot of choices of birthday alert intervals in iPhone settings
You can choose when you’d like to receive birthday reminders on an iPhone

Email birthday reminders

Many email programs like Gmail and will also display the birthdays of your saved contacts in your calendar. So once again, make sure you enter the person’s birthday along with their other data when you add them to your email address book. Then all you have to do is enable the birthday calendar in your Google Calendar or Organizer and all the birthdays will be visible.
Screenshot of activated birthday calendar Organizer
Check the box to activate your birthday calendar in your Organizer lets you schedule reminders for birthdays just like for all other appointments in your Organizer. To add a birthday reminder, click on the birthday entry in your Organizer and a pop-up window will appear. If you have a default reminder setting in your Organizer, it will be listed here and you can see if it matches your preferences for this birthday. If not, or if you don’t have default reminders activated, click Edit to set up the reminder you want for this particular birthday, then Appointment details to expand the window. Set up whatever email reminders or notifications you like – you can even add multiple reminders by clicking + Add reminders. For example, you can set up a reminder two weeks before the birthday so you remember to buy a present or send a card in advance, as well as a notification on the actual day. Be sure to click Save when you are done!
Screenshot of birthday reminder setup in Organizer
You can set up multiple birthday reminders in your Organizer

Choose one of these methods and you will be that incredible friend who never forgets a birthday! And if you found these suggestions useful, please leave us some feedback below!

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